Why do we need to set aside time every morning to spend with God?

 

In the spirit of "tithing" to God our "firstfruits" of our day, we should give God the firstfruits of our day as a special time together.

Proverbs 3:9-10 – Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops; [10] then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.

God's Word is so important that it must become a part of our day that begins with the beginning of the day.

Deut. 6:4-9 – Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. [5] Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. [6] These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. [7] Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. [8] Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. [9] Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.

Jeremiah 29:12-14 – Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. [13] You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. [14] I will be found by you," declares the Lord, "and will bring you back from captivity. I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you," declares the Lord, "and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile."

Morning time alone with was important to Jesus, David, and the prophet Isaiah. They modeled this behavior for us.

Mark 1:35 – Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.

Psalm 5:3 – In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation.

Isaiah 50:4 – The Sovereign Lord has given me an instructed tongue, to know the word that sustains the weary. He wakens me morning by morning, wakens my ear to listen like one being taught.

By getting God’s Word in my life early in the morning, I am able to meditate on it throughout the day (Josh 1:8).

Joshua 1:8 – Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.

 

 

The two biggest mistakes people make when trying to get launched in having a regular time with God in the morning is, first, they are too ambitious starting out. They try to "bite off" too much too soon. Second, they don't set conditions for success. You "set conditions for success" by thinking through where you'll spend the time and how you'll structure the time. Follow these simple steps to get going:

 

 

 

Step 1 – Structure your time in a reasonable way. Don't try to radically change your schedule by getting up an hour earlier for your initial quiet times. Shoot for 10 or 15 minutes.  We can normally get up a few minutes early without too much disruption to our sleep habits.  Remember, the goal early on is to experience success and establish a habit through consistency.  [You may need to buy an extra alarm clock to make sure you get up in the morning.]

Think about where to have you quiet time. If you have a roommate, you may want to go out of your room so as to not disturb him.  When I was in college first having quiet times as a new believer, I used to go down the hall to the bathroom and have my quiet time in one of the bathroom stalls.  I was certainly NOT disturbed, and sitting on a cold toilet seat will quickly wake you up in the morning.

Speaking of "waking up," DO NOT try to have your quiet time while sitting on your bed. The fabled "rack monster" will pull you back on your pillow too easily.  Get away from your bed.

For folks new to the Kingdom of God, use a Bible translation that's easy to read like one of the following: The Living Bible, The Good News Bible or The Message.

 

 

 

Step 2 – Use a simple format for your time:

1 – Pray for the time that God would open your heart to His personal message to you.

2 – Read a short passage and then think about it, what we call "meditation." Ask some questions about the text:

What do I observe happening?

What did it mean back then in the context of when it was written or when it occurred?

What does it mean to me today?

3 – Write one or two thoughts down from your time of meditation.

4 – Pray over the text and whatever God just showed you.

 

 

 

Step 3 – Develop a prayer list or prayer card to record requests and answers. Take a simple piece of paper and draw a line down the middle of it. On the top left write "MY REQUEST," and on the top right write "GOD'S ANSWER." Keep track of what you request in prayer and how God answers you.

 

 

Use this simple acrostic "ACTS" to help guide your prayer (this follows the outline of the Lord's Prayer):

A – Adoration. Start off by telling God how much you love Him and appreciate Him. If you've ever been in love, remember back to those early conversations of how you expressed your love to each other. Examples from the Bible: Exodus 15:1-21; 2 Sam 22; Psalm 63:1-8; Luke 1:46-55

C – Confession. Cleanse your heart. If you feel like you've been hiding things from God or just feel "dirty" or "impure" before God, get it off your chest. Tell Him you're sorry and ask Him for His generous forgiveness (1 John 1:9). Examples: Psalm 32 & 51; Prov 28:13; Luke 15:17-21; 1 John 1:8-10.

T – Thanksgiving. It's always polite to say "thank you," especially to God. Of the 10 lepers who were healed by Jesus, only one said "thanks" (see Luke 17:11-19). Have you forgotten to tell God "thanks" for what He has done for you? Examples: Dan 6:10; Psalm 105:1; Col 2:7; 1 Thes 5:18.

S – Supplication. After putting God first, cleansing our heart, and being thankful, we can now lay our requests before Him. A good way to group our supplication (or requests) is to pray for others first and then pray for ourselves. Examples: Gen 18:23-32; Psalm 143:8-10; Prov 30:7-9; Phil 1:9-11.

If you need a little help on Prayer, visit our Training page on prayer by clicking here.

 

 

Step 3 – Somehow track your progress at being consistent. Use a calendar or some other type of visual aid to check off the days you have quiet times. This is a great tool to help you develop the habit of beginning each day with God. Once you are up and running, you will probably no longer need this help.

 

Don't be too ambitious. Consistency matters most, soooooo, keep it simple.

 

Now that we've taken off, we want to experience sustained flight in quiet times.

 

 

Here are a few ways to go further in your quiet time disciplines.

 

 

 

Consider reading a short classic on drawing close with God in intimacy.

There are many to choose from, but here's a short list to get you started (your chaplain, pastor, or minister might have favorite book as well):

"The Pursuit of God" by A.W. Tozer

"The Practice of the Presence of God" by Brother Lawrence

"When I Saw Him" by Roy Hession

If you want to "bite off" a little more, try "Hinds' Feet on High Places" by Hannah Hurnand.

All these books should be available at a local Christian bookstore or on the web.

 

 

Some of the books of the Bible can be a little difficult to figure out if you are not familiar with who wrote them and the context of when they were written and why.  We recommend you pick up a Bible Handbook for yourself.  A Bible Handbook will tell you things like who wrote the particular book and why, to whom was the book written, and what was going on at the time.  It will also provide an outline to the book that can be helpful.  Both Zondervan and Unger have good, easy to read Bible Handbooks.

 

 

Consider spending a day or half-day alone with God.

Sound intimidating? Here's a way to go about it:

 

 

 

 

How to go About It – Having set aside a day or portion of a day for an extended quiet time and prayer, pack a lunch and start out.  Find a place where you can be alone, away from distractions.  This may be a wooded area near home, or your backyard.  An outdoor spot is excellent if you can find it; but don’t get sidetracked into nature studies and fritter away your time.  Take along a Bible, a notebook and pencil, a hymnbook, and perhaps a devotional book.

Divide the day into three parts: waiting on the Lord, prayer for others, and prayer for yourself.

1. WAIT ON THE LORD – You can begin this period of waiting by prayerfully reading through and meditating on a shorter book from the Bible. Consider one of the minor prophets or one of Paul's short epistles.

a. To realize His presence.

b. To be cleansed.

c. To worship Him.

2. PRAY FOR OTHERS

a. Ask specific things for them.

b. Use Paul's prayers for others.

c. Ask for others what you are praying for yourself.

3. PRAY FOR YOURSELF

a. Guidance and wisdom.

b. Godliness.

c. Concerns and needs.

Two Questions

The result of your day of prayer should be answers to the two questions Paul asked the Lord on the Damascus road (Acts 22:6-10). Paul’s first question was, “Who are you, Lord?” The Lord replied, “I am Jesus.” You will be seeking to know Him, to find out who He is.

The second question Paul asked was, “What shall I do, Lord?” The Lord answered him specifically. This should be answered or reconfirmed for you in that part of the day when you unhurriedly seek His will for you.

 

 

 

To go deeper, here is a suggestion. Below is Bible study on the topic of having a daily quiet time.  Study the recommended passages (and add some of your own) and then work to answer these three questions:

1. What do I see? (Observation) - This is always the most challenging portion of Bible study, which most people give only cursory attention to (unfortunately).  The key to doing Bible study is "training the eye to see." Seeing correctly helps you Interpret correctly and so on.  Environment - what it is like to be in the author's shoes.

2. What does it mean? (Interpretation) - What are the implications of what I just observed? 

3. How does it work? (Application) - Two things to look for in this process:

- How does it work for me?

- How does it work for others?

 

 

Recommended passages on spending intimate time with God:

 

 

Deut 6:4-9

Joshua 1:8

Psalm 5:3

Psalm 16:11

Psalm 19:7-11

Psalm 27:4

Psalm 42:1-2 (or the whole Psalm)

Psalm 63:1-6

Psalm 119:129-131 (or the whole Psalm)

Psalm 139:23-24

Psalm 143:8

Prov 3:9-10

Isaiah 50:4

Jer 29:13

Jer 31:3

Hosea 6:6

Matt 4:4

Mark 1:35

John 15:4

Rom 12:1-2

Phil 3:7-8

Heb 4:16

Rev 3:20